Am I getting screwed? Or am I screwing myself?

When does making accusations against your significant other go too far? First you must evaluate! Does one feel the need to slander the other party because of self-projection of their own skeletons? Or is there brick solid evidence against the other party to make someone feel that they’re certain in their sentencing. Or is it insecurity issues from a past relationship? These questions are at least the bare minimum an accuser should ask themselves before bringing forth charges. Especially when it comes to CHEATING!!! If cheating is the charge you (in my opinion) should be very careful of how you proceed in accusative behavior.

The emotional damage being done to your partner (if they’re truly innocent) can destroy even the most solid relationship. There is no worse feeling then knowing the truth and it not setting you free. Cheating is by far one of the most sensitive of relationship accusations that should not be made without proof! What would you do in this situation? Would you fight for your innocence or walk away? Depending on the degree and how far you go to state your case🤔 I feel it lies in the heart if you love the person you’ll fight but not everyone feels the same way!

Also character has a big thing to do with making an accusation you should know the person’s character, before accusing ask yourself! Is this something they would do? Is this out of their character? Is this something that is against their morals? Is it something they’ve done in the past? Is it something that they glorify or make excuses for? Am I guilty of the same thing I’m accusing them of and my conscience is fueling my mistrust? Allow yourself to play devil’s advocate before you make your final decision.

And always remember!

“When someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time” –  Maya Angelou


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